Tuesday, December 05, 2006

Once a cheater always a cheater?

In the last week my computer has continued to be broken, so my entries are sort of grouped together because i can only post them from school.

My response today is in regards to Jessica's submission from a few weeks ago about a cheating boyfriend. When i read this entry not only was i appauled that her boyfriend was cheating but rather the fact that the word AGAIN was placed directly beside it. It definitely made me think about what i would do in this position. For me, the answer was simple. He would be out of the picture completely, no contest! I really don't understand why anyone would put up with that behavior and abuse of trust. I don't understand why so many teenagers end up in relationships with infidelity and chosoe to do nothing but accept it. I can't believe that they don't realize how much better they are, and how much betetr they deserve, instead of simply accepting this disrespectful behavior from their partner. I also think that "once a cheater, always a cheater" stands true. If some one is able to get away with something once, they will msoty definitely do it again and again. Even in my personal experience, i have had afriend that cheatefdd on his girlfriend as soon as he realized he could get away with it and she would just accpet it, he did it even more. Even as we were out to dinner as a group he tried to pick up the waitress in the absence of his girlfriend.
I also felt strong sympathy for jessica when i read this. That is terrible that you seem to accept that this is happening and don't seem to have the strength to realize how great you are and the fact that someone equally great is what you are deserving of. If someone is willing to cheat on you and not consider your feelings, then they are certainly not worth any of your time or feelings either.
Just my thoughts on cheaters...stay tuned for more random opniions in the future...

1 Comments:

Blogger Katrina Hall said...

100% agreeee! Cheaters SUCK. I've never cheated or have been cheated on, but no one deserves that. Be with someone that respects you and that you can trust completely! Don't settle for less than what you deserve in fear of not finding anyone at all. It's like this one line I read a while back, but I really liked.."No guy is worth your tears, and when you find the one that is, he won't make you cry". Be with someone that will treat you right.

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